Love is...

how do you define love?

you dun wanna starve him, you want him to stay healthy all the time, you want all the best for him

or

you dun mind to starve him and physically you can ignore him but you understand his soul ?

isnt this hard to be selected ?

What do couples do ?

Hi there ! I'm in such a good mood to blog because I am so going to a movie tonight with my loved onesss! It has been real long since i have this kinda entertainment :/ so tonight deserves to be longed for !

Since im in a good mood, I'll try to make a good post with pics :)

Alright, since my life now revolves around Mat so i'll just post something related to both of us. We've been together for ___ as seen in the right bar, so all these while we actually don't really live being loving to each other, have our quality time, candle light dinner and all those stuffs which most couples will do. We actually spend time going for evening sports, planning friends outings, picnic, quarreling(stepping stone towards our future k), singing k with whole bunch of friends, travelling(only once tho), we hardly even go movies...!

I know all girls love romantic outings, warm atmosphere, nice food etc. but imagine, if you live doing these at all times, eating at mamak will become something special for you then! mayb one day your bf surprise u by staying at home doing nothing ! do you get wat im trying to say? So try to do something new with your bf, such as, getting a pet and play with them ? love them like a kid of both of you.



It surely keeps you warm all the time !

Okay, having a pet is not an easy task though so if you dont think you can bear with the responsibility, plssss, please don't buy or adopt a pet. Dont torture them and you yourself ! but if you r really planning to get one and you are so damn sure that you will treat them like your own kids, go here ! okay why am i talking bout having a pet ! hahaha. alright, next thing you can try out is utilizing your camera !

Have your partner posing funnily, uglily, whatsoever which makes your day !


And begin admiring your own capturing skill ! and most of all, edit it on your pc and make it a real poster or wallpaper on your pc isnt that fun !

Ok, another easier job is to capture your own pic, in short, camwhore and put it on your partner's handphone wallpaper ! that's a little surprise which could make him smile :)


Do you have the habit of taking pics during your outing ?


PLEASE DO !
Try to keep a collection of your loving pictures so you can do something with it during your special day. for example, you can make a colourful photo album and give it to him during your 1st anniversary... or you can decorate your room wall with lots of loving pics, comeon ! that is really sweeeeet !

Another reminder! even if your relationship is years old, you should always keep yourself dressed up whenever you guys r going out ! i mean, put on make up and wear your contact lens, that could enlighten the whole outing !

Most of all, always appreciate and keep your picture well cause these pics could really make you smile when you accidentally see them somewhere.

Also, you shouldnt be shy to take his pic whenever you want to ! Alright now, if you like my post, do the same and i now TAG you :) especially Halle, do this post.

random weird day

today is just a weird day. the weather is the main factor i guess!

i took a cab and the cab driver was cursing all the way out scolding me when i demanded to go to bangsar lrt instead of damansara. it's the same way anyway. and i just asked if he wanna do that, i dun mind if he says no. but all he did was scolding from the starting point to the destination.

well, i was stil being nice saying thank you all but he ignored. well well. bad luck day.

anyway, when i come to lrt, there were two guys, twins brothers i presume, coz they look the same. what happened was they were arguing over something... really kinda loud. they werent aware that almost everyone was staring at them. but they look kinda taiko so i dare not la u know, wat if they just punch me in the face asking me wtf im staring at.

they got out to the same station as me, still quarrelling, it's freaky when they walk in front of you and they looked like they are gonna fight anytime soon. then i walked faster to their front and guess wat, they had some physical touch to each other, really look like gonna fight and what i did was actually running down the stairs. haha.

the weather lately is killing me. so try this song, thinking of you by katy perry. it's pretty good ok. random. i dunno wat to say ba :)

why did i start a blog

few days ago while i was visitting my fren's blog, i found out that she had a list of blogger friends, with names and what she(my fren) thinks about them. obviously im in the blogroll and im the JOYCE DOESN'T REALLY BLOG. lol, she says it all !

kinda true isn't it. i have a blog which is so hardly updated. my bad. somehow i really enjoy reading blog rather than blogging myself 'cause somehow im not as creative as other bloggers who made their blog pretty interesting !

i started bloggin' because i had a lot to share with people and i love taking pics of everything and i used to love taking pics wherever i go and whatever interesting i see for the sake of putting them in my blog so when i can recall what i've done in my life.

sadly, ever since i dun have a stable internet line at home, i started abandoning my blog and lost interest in blogging. now that i can online at mat's house BUT i have a prob with transfering my pics. gosh. how hard it is just to blog !

however. i will not delete my blog. i will still try to update and post pics if possible.

for now, im in a confused mood that i really need a space to think... so, catchup soon ! till then.

failure fucked up.

accidentally found this pic on mat's pc, guess i saved it sometimes ago. so i just post it for this entry :)

guess it was almost a year ago, when we just started our relationship, and it was law ball 2008. that was a good time, really. i enjoyed so much hanging out with my new love at that time, enjoyed alot really. we spent like 24-7 together and never felt bored. it was all good! worth putting on a =D

things dont get boring thou... just that i've been in a bad temper. i always think i get mad of very sensible thing as i think i have all rights to get mad seriously. but after talking to him, he makes me feel all wrong. im wrong, im not supposed to get mad. u noe, the feeling sux to the maxx when i wanna talk to him nicely, bring back the good atmosphere but afterall i still hold the anger in my HEAD. argh i hate it.

i am really a failure in relationship. i believe one day we will break up, coz he cant take it anymore. but im not prepared for this. i just fcking h8 being in love. coz everyone changes. i duno wtf im talking bout but i can assure u for this moment, i really just hate myself and i dun deserve anyone. many ppl go for looks, u may get a really hot chic or cute guy, but when u find out he/she's not the one... u really have the urge to fuck her off right... but what holds u back is... the feeling... u love her/him. u love it best when u guys having lotsa fun.

love never fails. but i fail. miserably.

Love never fails

i dunno whether or not its human nature, people tend to set out a whole long to-do list for their boyfriends. and also this thing makes influences my way of thinking. i think a bf should be available at all time whenever im in need, he should take me to wherever i wanna go, he should pick me up whenever i need transport, he should buy me food whenever im hungry, he shouldnt leave me alone, he should pay for my food, he shouldnt scold me, he should take care of me when im sick and so on.

i mean, that's really a high expectation u see? i understand that girls need a bf to make them feel loved and cared and etc but then hav u ever thought why does a guy need a gf? they dun need a gf just because they wanna take care of a girl they wanna burden themselves right? they just need a soulmate, someone they can turn to when they are down, someone who makes them feel appreciated as well right?

i dunno whats wrong, love seems to be really conservative to many people. they think that a girl should hold their dignity, they shouldnt be telling the guy how much she loves him and things like that. i really dun find it wrong to tell my bf how much i love him, it makes me feel really good to let him know that i love him yet getting to know that he loves me very much too. sometimes it's word like this which makes you smile and feel stronger in a relationship. znit?

love is both ways n to work it out? there's only one way, which involves both of you to compromise and put in more effort. love never fails.